Influence Of Planets On Love
In this series of articles, I have been stressing the importance of astrological events in our mundane lives. By attuning our schedules to the appropriate astrological timing, our lives will flow more smoothly. Nowhere is that advice more accurate than in matters of love.
There are a lot of astrological factors to take into account when considering love. It is not as easy as overcoming anger or seeking fame. Many planetary energies have sway over the affairs of our hearts. For example, consider the effects of the Moon.
Whether it is waxing or waning, full or new will determine how it influences our romances. Mercury (the planet of communication) has a huge, albeit indirect, part to play in romantic affairs. If we are constantly miscommunicating, we cannot connect deeply enough to establish a heartfelt romantic connection.
Even the Martial forces have a part to play in our love affairs since they rule over our lustier passions, and, for many of us, these more primal urges are what drive us to connect within the realms of romantic relationships.
Unfortunately, getting all these planetary energies to align in such a way that is favorable to your romantic pursuits is extremely difficult. You may have an auspicious alignment between Mercury and Venus, but the Moon may be in a phase or sign that is not conducive to your success.
If you are unhappily single, it may not be your fault. Love is, perhaps, the most complicated area of human existence that we have to navigate on our journey through this life. If you look at all the astrological events that have to come together to make the situation right for producing a lasting love, you can see how truly complicated it is.
The good news here is that you can take some of the pressure off yourself. Don’t attempt to navigate these waters yourself. Like all complex things (taxes, living wills, funeral arrangements, financial advice, etc.), you should turn to a professional astrologer for managing all the diverse aspects of your personal love life with horoscope compatibility predictions.
Getting help from a knowledgeable professional when your situation has surpassed your level of expertise is not a sign of weakness, and it doesn’t mean that you have failed. It means that you are much more wise than all the countless other people who falsely believe that they need to do it on their own.
Sadly, I know that many of you reading this won’t take that piece of sage advice, which I have just given you, and, truthfully, I can’t fault you for your refusal. Our society prizes independence and self-sufficiency above almost all other things. How could you be faulted for wanting to hide your need fear of loneliness and your need for interdependence?
If you decide to ignore my advice about hiring a professional astrologer to guide you on your journey to find your ideal romantic partner, keep these four suggestions in mind as you search for your love.
Planetary Energies For Love & Romance
#1. Stop worrying exclusively about the Sun Signs
The zodiac compatibility between your Sun sign and your potential partners is important, but it is not the be-all-end-all in the search for an ideal mate. At the very least, consider comparing your Moon and your Venus signs as well.
Remember how I said that there were a lot of factors involved in love compatibility? If you attempt to balance these three elements, you will see what I mean. Before you go on a date with someone, do your best to get their Pre-Natal Chart.
#2. Ask for the date of birth, time of birth & birth location
It may be awkward, but the information that you get will be well worth the upfront discomfort. Besides, if you believe in astrology enough to follow that advice, you won’t want your future partner poo-pooing your interests.
So, in the long run, laying this particular card on the table in the very beginning will weed out a lot of undesirable potential partners.
#3. Try to plan your dates when the Moon is waxing or full
Never plan a first date when the Moon is waning. Whenever possible, plan your dates on a Friday. Never schedule a date while Mercury is retrograde.
If you’re struggling with dating, please consider hiring a professional astrologer. If you refuse to do that, please attempt to follow the suggestions I just listed. Barring both of those pieces of advice, please just be kind to yourself and patient with your own set of circumstances.
If you want love and you are truly open to inviting love into your life, eventually it will work out for you one way or another. Just give it time. Remember the words of J. M. Berry, “Even love unreturned has its rainbow.”