What Is I Ching Hexagram 54: 歸 妹 “The Marrying Maiden” ?
Kuei Mei is the Chinese name of the I Ching Hexagram 54. With inner and outer trigrams forming thunder over lake, this Hexagram is called ‘the marrying maiden’ or alternatively named ‘converting the maiden’ or ‘returning maiden’.
Hexagram 54 can be the most difficult to understand. It represents a time when a previous hexagram has been ignored. It calls for a serious time of slow progression in order to avoid making another serious mistake. There will come a time during the life path where we will make a great mistake. It is impossible to go the whole course of life without error or defeat.
Interpretation & Meaning of Hexagram 54:
Hexagram 54 represents a time of great error, when perhaps a previous hexagram was ignored. There is always a second chance to correct any problems or mistakes that have been made. This period in time can be very difficult as we deal with the consequences of our actions.
It should be remembered that this phase will also pass and the opportunity to regain personal strength will be made apparent. When we rush instead of being patient, we can often overlook important signs that would have been clear signals of danger.
When we ignore these signs and trudge ahead instead, we are then put into a difficult situation that may be hard to overcome. The point in which we realize the wrong we have created is then the opportunity to gain a new perspective on how to change the situation.
It is important to safe guard yourself against destructive feelings such as anger or self-pity in order to overcome the situation. The last thing a person needs during this time period is to make another monstrous mistake.
I Ching Hexagram 54 – Personal Goals:
It is easy to fall in despair and feel depressed when we have done something to either cause harm to others or too ourselves. Hexagram 54 doesn’t give wisdom about the small mistakes like overlooking a small detail or accidentally breaking something of little value.
It means a major mistake has been made that has brought on a very difficult time. This could be because a person was unable to be patient and instead rushed a period of steady flow and now has to deal with the negative repercussions. Running into a situation without being prepared will only lead to a difficult outcome.
I Ching Hexagram 54 – Love:
Once you are able to recognize the wrong that has been made, steps can be taken to overcome the situation and mend any wounds. Sometimes you realize that a romantic relationship has been based on lust instead of love.
Being honest with yourself and your partner can help put into perspective a change that needs to come forth or a break in the relationship in order to progress personally. Ending the relationship all together is sometimes the only option in order to stop a bad habit.
I Ching Hexagram 54 – Career & Business:
No matter what the troubling situation in business might be, the only pathway that is going to lead a person out of this dark time is focusing on a slow and steady progression. Learning to be patient is the only way to get out of this situation.
THE JUDGMENT POEM
THE MARRYING MAIDEN.
Undertakings bring misfortune.
Nothing that would further.
THE IMAGE POEM
Thunder over the lake:
The image of THE MARRYING MAIDEN.
Thus the superior man
Understands the transitory
In the light of the eternity of the end.
Focus on personal strengths and encourage yourself to keep trying and enduring. Just because a mistake has been made doesn’t mean the life path is coming to an end. These times are difficult when those who we have surrounded ourselves with suddenly abandon us based on the actions we have taken.
Look at this time as a new opportunity of change as we take a second look at our own actions and behaviors. Prepare the body, mind, and soul for the next phase in life that will come eventually.
The most important thing to remember is that some aspect of life needs to change in order to prevent the same mistake from happening again.